Only the care you would wish for yourself.

I'm thinking of getting that tattooed on my collarbone.  Why?  Read this article:  http://zocalopublicsquare.org/thepublicsquare/2011/11/30/how-doctors-die/read/nexus/

"To administer medical care that makes people suffer is anguishing. Physicians are trained to gather information without revealing any of their own feelings, but in private, among fellow doctors, they’ll vent. “How can anyone do that to their family members?” they’ll ask."